The Awkward of Sexual Health and the Moments of Discomfort, or Comfort - Part 3

Sexually Awkward Norms and Shattered Myths - Continued.

Awkward = good sex = good health = good life.  Keep the "ouch" and the "uh, oh no, sorry" in the fluidity of normal.

In the initial discussion of August 10, 2018’s The Awkward of Sexual Health we explored the thoughts of sex and awkward moments being complicated. What most of us already know is that in some way sex, despite any negatives, is beneficial for our well being.  Good fun sex is not meant solely as a procreational discussion, but it is sometimes lacking in the general population’s intrigue when it relates to the positive health benefits of the individual. In fact, if one was focused on the history of sex we might learn that many religious and spiritual leaders have evolved in recognizing that sex between consenting adults could lead to a further strengthening union and bond that is added to the specific functionality of procreation (or propagation).

With this theme of fun sex and it’s linkage to improved health how do we demystify the previous discussions of glorified sex and unrealistic pressures of perfection mentioned in cinema and the media?  The Answer? ...

PDA - No it Does Not Mean Pretty Damn Arrogant!

Intimacy vs. Awkward Possessiveness

PDA (showing Public Display of Affection) is the term.  But how often have we heard a moral jab of “Get a room?”  But then there is the “wow, they look good together.”  When is displaying social intimacy acceptable, appropriate and supportive?  How you play (or not play) in public can give away secrets.  

PDA can reveal information as to your relationship.  As a marriage and family therapist in Los Angeles who observes through couples counseling

Ignoring Bad Vibes for Hot Sex might mesh and be Insanely Intense; but, not good for the Psyche...

Sex and Aural Energy: The Intimate Connection Preventing Partners from Lasting Longer Together

Be careful who you're intimate with. STI (sexually transmitted infections) are not the issue.  Is there room for discussion about contracting emotional (vs. social) diseases.  I truly believe that there are not enough discussions about aural intimacies as they relate to sexual energy in relationships.

There is something to be said about being intimately connected with your partner (s); or not being intimately connected with your partners (s).  

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Kissing! What is it About This Prelude to a Kiss.

What is it about this attachment and hormonal engagement that causes such a stir when we kiss?  KPCC's 89.3 had a live talk that was repeated Sunday evening titled Pucker Up - there's more to kissing than romance.  The history is definitely interesting. Whether there is a theme of the human